It's so beautiful to see a woman being loved and nurtured by a man. That feeling to look at the grace at that fortunate woman's face is so eye catching. What makes me talk about this is the question that has been striking every bit of my brain since long- "How do you differentiate between a male and a man?" I guess most of us would have our parameters to define the two terms. What I perceive as the line of distinction between the two are the two parameters- 1. That no matter he is physically not staunch enough to 'flaunt' his manhood but he has a 'mouth' that's strong enough to shut the tongues that utter anything against the female set; 2. No matter he does't know what his mother made in breakfast, what his sister got him on his last birthday, what his grandmother slapped him for, what his girlfriend or wife wore that day, he should be 'present'(mentally, emotionally) in all those moments where his mother needs him to cook for her when she's tired, when his sister is busy doing her projects and she needs her brother to help her out, when his grandmother is irritated at her old radio that's not catching the signal and she wants him to play those old-world tracks for her, when his girlfriend/wife silently cries and she needs the lights for her heart to show up, his chest to feel the beats, his maturity to understand the reasons of her silence.
Beard, moustaches, baritone voice and so on are all biological blessings given by the divine, enough to categorize him as a male. What possibly makes him a 'man' is that aspect of 'feminism' in his being that makes him worth the title.
I stand by the fact that if a man has that mentality to address his 'power' over a woman through the ways that he does, he has the 'strength' to stand beside her, holding her hand through all her walks, too.
So, be a man than being a 'male'. Stop commenting upon or assisting laughter of your friends in forming opinions about them without even having known them. Stand by all those women who have been a part of your life. Don't just love them, but understand their silence. Heal their scars, don't just cover them up with a temporary smile.
Beard, moustaches, baritone voice and so on are all biological blessings given by the divine, enough to categorize him as a male. What possibly makes him a 'man' is that aspect of 'feminism' in his being that makes him worth the title.
I stand by the fact that if a man has that mentality to address his 'power' over a woman through the ways that he does, he has the 'strength' to stand beside her, holding her hand through all her walks, too.
So, be a man than being a 'male'. Stop commenting upon or assisting laughter of your friends in forming opinions about them without even having known them. Stand by all those women who have been a part of your life. Don't just love them, but understand their silence. Heal their scars, don't just cover them up with a temporary smile.
Amazing!!just loved it ❤😍👍
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Amazing!!just loved it ❤😍👍
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